"I feel so ashamed" — 41-year-old lady cries out in regret; warns young girls to stop chasing "rich men" and settle down early.

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A 41-year-old lady has sparked a massive conversation online after sharing a deeply emotional video about her struggles with being "single and searching" at her age.

​In the video, which is already going viral, the lady opened up about how she spent her 20s selecting and rejecting good men because she was focused on finding a wealthy man who would "spoil and pamper" her. She admitted that she often told her friends she "knew her worth" and refused to settle for less—only to find herself alone now that she's in her 40s.

​"At my age, I should be having at least 15-year-old kids right now," she lamented. "I feel so ashamed of myself. 20-year-old girls are searching, and me too, I am searching!"

Watch 41 years old lady crys out

​She went on to advise young girls to make use of their "youthful energetic bodies" and try to settle down between the ages of 25 and late 20s. According to her, once a woman hits 30, it becomes "really, really difficult" for a man to come by.

​She noted that many women her age are full of regrets but choose to suffer in silence "behind closed doors," but she decided to speak out to save others from the same fate. Sigh.

​What do you guys think? Is she right to warn young girls to settle down early, or is it better to be single than to settle with the wrong person just because of age?

​Let’s talk in the comments!"