According to her, they haven't been together for eight months, and she has been the one footing all the bills—including a ₦2 million hospital bill for their child's birth—while he remained "toxic" and absent.
Read her full, unfiltered side of the story below:
"Please oh, I'm not married oh! Because I see no reason why a lot of people keep coming to my DM saying that my husband is sick and I'm not in the hospital taking care of him and stuff like that. Everything happened few years ago when Ceesu came to my village to do introduction. Though he was supposed to pay for my bride price, but in Igbo culture... they were now waiting for me to give birth so that he would pay for my bride price.
But along the line, he was so toxic; we were always having misunderstandings. I and Ceesu have not even been together for the past eight months. His family never for once come to Lagos to see their grandson. Even when I give birth, the mother did not even visit me. The hospital bills was up to two million [Naira], right? I was the one that paid for everything. Since Michael was born, I've been the one taking care of his expenses and his school fees and stuff like that. He never for once paid for anything.
Have I ever for once come on social media saying that I'm the one taking care of the expenses? No, because I feel like it's none of your business. But the fact that you people are seeing me as a bad person that he's sick but I'm not there taking care of him... like, it has gotten to my nerves. Ceesu is my ex. Ex should be forgotten. I am single and I'm ready to mingle. Baby boy, come around let's mingle and forget about the past. I am not married. Nobody paid for my bride price. I am fully single and I’m ready to mingle."
Omo! This is a lot to take in! Blackchully is clearly done with the "bad girl" narrative and is reclaiming her "single and ready to mingle" status. But you know there are always two sides to a story—will Ceesu’s family keep quiet after these heavy allegations?
What do you guys think? Is Blackchully right to wash her hands off her ex since he didn't "complete the rites," or is she being too harsh?

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